I have no idea why I got NO work from Bossy Man yesterday.

Nothing.

One phone call with three letters at the end of the day, but other than that, nothing.

It was a long, boring day.

Today, however, I am SURE he will be sending me WAY too much stuff to do.

I also told him I am leaving work early tomorrow, which will cut into his ordering me around time.

I got here this morning, expecting TONS of work in my email from him, but other than an offer from PayPal, another one from E-bay, and one email from the girl that does invoicing in the Cities, there was nothing.

So, I am playing the waiting game. I KNOW it will be coming. Just when????

I went to Wally World yesterday after work to pick up dog and cat food. While I was there, I picked up some snacks for the weekend of boating. The goal is to fish all day on Saturday, coming in only if we reach out limits, and then go back out again. The guys are leaving early tomorrow and going to hit the lake to "find the fish for the ladies." Yeah, whatever!! They are NOT doing it for the ladies. They are going for themselves, but they want to make it sound like they are such sensitive men and everything they do, they do for US.

HA HA HA!!!!

I let them think that. It's fine.

April, Trish and I will be getting there around 8:00 or so Friday evening. The guys will be done fishing by then, have everything lined up for the next day, and most likely be already drunk!!

Can't wait!!!

Trish is not staying with us. Her cousin has a place a couple of resorts down the shore from us and that's where she is staying.

Anyway, so got home after Wally World yesterday and took care of my doggies. Dave said he was waiting for me to come over so we could take a nap together so I fully expected him to be in bed when I got there. But he wasn't. He was on the phone, setting up work appointments. That's cool.

When he was done, we sat around for a bit and gabbed. Then we took a nap. I was sleeping SOOOOO good, it was unreal. I guess I was a little tired.

Got up, made some dinner. Sat around. Dave had ZERO energy so he was procrastinating about getting the fishing rods and tackle ready. He never did get around to it.

I was just about to go inside and get the DVD of Weeds, Season Two going when Doug showed up with his cooler. If he takes a cooler with, that means he is staying for a while.

He saw I was there, so he called April to come down, and she and Trish showed up on the deck.

It was pretty hot yesterday but the covered deck feels pretty good.

We stayed out there until just after dark and everyone went home. I ran to take care of my dogs and then came back and we went to bed.

I slept really really good, but I woke up with Dave playing with my face. He was just laughing at me. I know I must have been snoring but he just plays with me until I roll over.

Which I did.

woke up this morning, quietly got out of bed and went home to shower and eat and get ready for work.

I was expecting a text from Dave for coffee but never heard from him, but when I drove by his house on my way to work, he was out on the deck, waving me to stop. so, I had a quick cup with him.

He is going to be gone on appointments all day today and home really late, so I won't see him at all unless I stay overnight again.

I kinda want to because of the humidity in my house with no central air, and Dave has central air.

But I think I will give him a break and let him sleep alone tonight. I hate that I snore and it wakes him up sometimes. He says not to worry about it, it doesn't bother him. But it bothers ME.

I hope that when I quit smoking that will take care of the problem.

Oh, and does Dave snore?

Hells, yes!!!!

Quite a bit, in fact. But it doesn't bother me at all. Usually it puts me to sleep.

He says the same thing about me, but I still feel bad if I keep him up.

Anyway, so, here I am, waiting for work to come my way. I know once it starts, it will not stop!!!!

And I would rather get things going rather than wait for the last minute.

But again, it's all in Bossy Man's hands.

I hate that.

Oh, I got an email from the ex, changing things about the debt we owe and who is paying what. He has loaded me down with more debt than I am willing to take care of, so I am NOT going to let him do that. I have one more ace up my sleeve that I will use if I have to. And it's looking like I will have to. He says that his lawyer will not LET him sign the house over to me.

What? that's bullshit!! An attorney can SUGGEST he not do that, but he can't STOP him from doing it. So, if that's the way it is, then HE is liable for the assessment on the house, too, and he can now pay half of that before it can be sold. He wants to play hard ball, I can play right back at him.

Oh, and his ATTORNEY? Does not exist. If there was one, why the hell does he have ME filling out the paperwork? If he has an attorney, he had to pay a retainer and that money would go towards filing costs. What a bullshitter.

Anyway, so an email was shot back at the ex with MY suggestions for the debt distribution. I have heard nothing back from him. If I don't hear anything, I will just go ahead and file the papers the way I want them to be and he can just hire a real, live, breathing attorney and fight me for it. Whatever.

Okay. Enough rambling.

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