Yesterday was a hectic day.

work was pretty busy. Did lots of reports, daily entries and letters.

I had to leave stuff on my desk at the end of the day because I couldn't get it all in.

Of course, part of the problem was that Jim was being an ass again about wanting a key to the house.

I thought he had dropped the subject, but no.

It was just on hold.

It started when Dave told me that Jim was at my house, getting the lawn mower.

I had gotten NO text message from him, saying he was going to come over. That is against our agreement that he call me to let me know he is coming over and WHEN.

That "WHEN" is important to this story.

So, I texted him and told him that I knew he was just at the house and that he did not let me know he was coming per our agreement.

He said that he sent me an email.

So, I checked my email.

Sure enough, there was a message there.

However, the message said that he was going to come get the mower sometime on Mon, Tue or Wed.

What the fuck?

The agreement was that he let me know before he comes over so I can clear out or make sure that I don't have a guest over that might cause a confrontation.

So, what did he expect from that message?

That I was not going to go home from Mon thru Wed?

What an ass.

Anyway, so he gets all pissy with me, and calls me and starts in on me and the whole notice thing and the key and that he has a "right" to be in the house anytime he wants. And that his "lawyer" says that he can change the locks on the house if he wants to.

Yeah, his "lawyer", which I do not believe actually exists. I have asked him for his lawyer's name, phone number and case file number and I got no response.

He said that he was being pissy with me because I called him on taking the mower without letting me know exactly when he was coming over.

Oh, and he said that the reason why he wants in the house is to make sure all his "stuff" is okay.

I told him that I would let him in anytime he wants to check on his "stuff", OR, better yet, COME GET YOUR "STUFF" and the issue would be put to rest.

He keeps saying that he is afraid that I will throw away his belongings.

Fuck that!! He is just trying to control me.

I explained to him AGAIN that I do not want him to have a key, that I would not feel secure with the knowledge that he could come in at any time. I told him that I can't go into HIS house and he is secure in knowing that.

So, fuck him.

Oh, and he got on my case about me throwing some old gas tanks from the company he NO LONGER works for onto the trailer to be hauled to the dump.

He said I cannot throw away anything.

I said I could not throw away the old uncharged fire extinguishers from a job he had over ten years go?

and he said no, not without his permission.

So, I asked him if I could throw them away and he said yes.

What a control freak!!!

I will throw away any damn thing I want. It's MY residence. I live there. He is the one to move out.

Oh, yeah, and one more thing he said to me. I reminded him that he told me that HE wanted to move out when I said I was going to, he said that he needed to because he couldn't take care of the dogs due to his traveling.

I reminded him about that, and he told me that I was having hallucinations and I made all that up.

What the fuck???

All I need to do it look back into my diary from those days and it's all there.

AND I have been keeping notes of the dumb ass things he has been doing and saying.

Sigh.......

Anyway, so I was a bit stressed yesterday.

I called Dave and he tried to calm me down and he did end up making me feel better. I have to realize that this is TEMPORARY and Jim is just being an ass.

A lawyer told me that once I get the papers filed, I don't need to let Jim in the house anymore, that it will be MY residence and NOT his.

So, I have decided to go ahead and finish the papers and NOT send them to Jim to look over. I will just file them. The sooner the better.

Then if he comes anywhere NEAR me without my permission, I will call the police.

I am tired of his mind games.

After work, I went straight home and the lawn mower was back already. Woot!!!

So, I mowed my back yard. I ran out of gas with only about 20 feet left to do, so I was a bit ticked that I had to wait to let the mower cool down before I filled it with gas again.

but while I waited, I ate dinner and watched some TV. then I finished the lawn and trimmed the weeds, and watered my plants.

then I went inside and relaxed the rest of the evening.

Dave had two appointments out of town so that gave me a chance to just be at home alone and do whatever I wanted to.

He called me after his appointments and we gabbed for a long time.

then it was time for sleep and I fell asleep so quickly.

Now it's Tuesday morning and I am at work and need to get some stuff done.

So, have a great day!!!! It's bound to be better than yesterday!!!

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